Finally, the most awaited month in the Islamic Calendar has arrived. Alhamdillah, most of us already have it planned out.
May Allah make this Ramadhaan our turning point so that we can be better Muslims.
Allah Almighty gave us this month so that we could change and so that He could forgive us. How many of our relatives our friends someone we knew who was with us last Ramadhan and are not here today? Allah gave you this chance, how will you use it?
Ramadhan is the most conducive time for your Ibaadah, time for you to repent, afterall Shaytan is locked away….
Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) reported that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: When Ramadan enters, the gates of Paradise are opened, the gates of Hellfire are closed and the devils are chained. (Al-Bukhari and Muslim)
It’s up to us to decide what we want to do this Ramadhan then ask Allah Almighty to give us Tawfeeq to do it. Are we going to be in a loss?
The Prophet (sallallahu alaihi wa-sallam) climbed upon the Minbar (pulpit) and said, ‘Ameen, Ameen, Ameen.’ It was said, ‘O Messenger of Allah, why did you say Ameen?’ He (sallallahu alaihi wa-sallam) said, ‘Jibreel came to me and said, ‘O Muhammad, he is doomed who hears your mention and does not say, Peace be upon you. (in the Hadeeth of Musnad Ahmad – then Allah may distance him)’ He said, ‘Say, Ameen.’ So, I said, ‘Ameen’. Then he said, ‘He is doomed who sees the month of Ramadaan come and go, and he has not been forgiven. (in the Hadeeth of Musnad Ahmad – and so he enters Hell Fire, then Allah may distance him)’ He said, ‘Say, ‘Ameen.’ So, I said, ‘Ameen’. Then he said, ‘He is doomed, who grows up and both his parents, or one of them is still alive, and they do not cause him to enter Paradise (in the Hadeeth of Musnad Ahmad – then Allah may distance him)’ He said, ‘Say, Ameen.’ So, I said, ‘Ameen.”
Subhanallah! Are we going to be in a loss?( We ask Allah’s refuge from that)
This was a supplication by an Angel and replied to by a Prophet. Not just any Angel but Jibreel (Alayhi Salaam) and replied to by Rasulullah Muhammad peace be upon him.
Or are we going to be among the successful?
Abu Hurayrah reported that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said,
Whoever observes fasts during the month of Ramadan out of sincere faith, and hoping to attain Allah’s rewards, then all his past sins will be forgiven. (Al-Bukhari and Muslim)
We should try our very best to try and get Allah’s pleasure this Ramadhan… No matter how big our sins are…
Allah says: “Say: O my Servants who have transgressed against their souls! Despair not of the Mercy of Allah: for Allah forgives all sins: for He is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.” [Sûrah al-Zumar: 53]
Allah forgives all sins…
Allah says: “Unless he repents, believes, and works righteous deeds, for Allah will change the evil of such persons into good, and Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful,” [Sûrah al-Furqân: 70]
All we need to do is repent sincerely and Surely Allah is MOST FORGIVING!
Allah wants to forgive you….
Allah wants to accept your repentance, but those who follow [their] passions want you to digress [into] a great deviation.
Ask Him and He surely will forgive you.
Except those who repent, have faith and good deeds, those Allah will charge their sins for good deeds. Certainly Allah is most forgiving and merciful.
That’s your first step, ask Allah for His forgiveness and He surely will forgive you.
Secondly, make a timetable for your Ramadhan planning. Whatever you want to do put it down in a nice organized manner,after all Muslims are organized people.
Write down a timetable
Divide your day into at least 6 parts:
The morning: suhoor, tahajjud, Fajr, reciting Quran after Fajr, istighfar
Work: Remember fasting is not an excuse to be inefficient at work; neither does it justify being ill tempered because you miss your coffee! Concentrate on dhikr especially while waiting in traffic, while driving to and from work and school etc.
From Asr to Maghrib: 30 minute nap, family time: discussion, reciting Qur’an, watch an educational program, narrating the prophets’ stories, prepare Iftar, any other task you planned etc.
Breaking fast: Break your fast with dates and water as it is sunnah, and also has numerous health benefits.
Isha/ taraweeh: It is not necessary to spend hours in traffic to go to a mosque with the best sheikh/ imam in the city. Choose a Masjid that is in your neighborhood!
Night: This time depends on when you complete the Taraweeh prayers. (Family time, completing other tasks, Qiyam)
Keep each Salah as a time interval between tasks, so you can pray at the masjid if possible.
Intention for i’tikaaf (to stay in the masjid for a particular time period in the worship of Allah subhānahu wa ta’āla (glorified and exalted be He) while maintaining certain conditions)
Ramadhan is the month of Quraan, Read Quraan as much as you can and also reflect upon it. Reading Quraan without reflecting upon it is of no use at all. We can mutter it with our tongues but not reflect in our hearts. It is best to read 10 verses and reflect upon it than read 10 surahs without reflecting upon it at all.
The month of Ramadan in which was revealed the Quran, a guidance for mankind and clear proofs for the guidance and the Criterion (between right and wrong). So, whoever of you sights the month, he/she must observe fasts that month and whoever is ill or on a journey, the same number (of days which one did not observe fasts must be made up) from other days. Allah intends for you ease, and he does not want to make things difficult for you. He wants that you must complete the same number of days and that you must glorify Allah for having guided you so that you may be grateful to Him.” (2:184)
Don’t forget to pray Taraweh in your local masjid.
Narrated Abu Huraira: I heard Allah’s Apostle saying regarding Ramadan, “Whoever prayed at night in it (the month of Ramadan) out of sincere Faith and hoping for a reward from Allah, then all his previous sins will be forgiven.”
Look out for Laylatul Qadr, The Night of Power a night better than 1000 months!
Narrated ‘Aisha: Allah’s Apostle said, “Search for the Night of Qadr in the odd nights of the last ten days of Ramadan.”
We have indeed revealed this (Message) in the Night of Power:
And what will explain to thee what the night of power is?
The Night of Power is better than a thousand months.
Therein come down the angels and the Spirit by Allah’s permission, on every errand:
Peace!…This until the rise of dawn!
The verses above regard the Night as better than hundred years . The whole month of Ramadan is a period of spiritual training wherein believers devote much of their time to fasting, praying, reciting the Quran, remembering Allah, and giving charity. However because of the revealed importance of this night, Muslims strive [give more effort] harder in the last ten days of Ramadan since the Laylat al-Qadr could be one of the odd-numbered days in these last ten (the first, third, fifth, seventh or ninth). Normally, some Muslims from each community perform itikāf in the mosque: they remain in the mosque for the last ten days of the month for prayers and recitation. Women also observe i’tikaf. They remain in prayer and meditation mostly, although they are allowed to do the minimum domestic work to run the family .When Muhammed observed i’tikaf in a tent, he saw a few tents around his. His wives joined him by pitching tents.(From Wikipedia)
Before you start this month, start it with a clean heart. Don’t hold any grudges.Forgive all those who wronged you.
“..and let them pardon and overlook. Would you not like that Allah should forgive you? And Allah is Forgiving and Merciful.”
BE CONSISTENT IN YOUR DEEDS DURING RAMADHAN AND AFTER RAMADHAN TOO!
BENEFITS OF FASTING.
“In Paradise there is a gate called al-Rayyaan, through which those who used to fast will enter on the Day of Resurrection, and no one but they will enter it. It will be said, ‘Where are those who fasted?’ They will get up, and none will enter it but them. When they have entered, it will be locked, and no one else will enter.”
It was narrated from Abu Salamah that Abu Hurayrah said: “The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: ‘Whoever fasts Ramadaan out of faith and seeking reward, his previous sins will be forgiven.’
‘Allaah says: “Every deed of the son of Adam is for him, except for fasting; it is for Me and I shall reward for it.”
“Fasting is a shield and when one of you is fasting he avoid sexual relations with his wife and quarreling. If somebody should fight or quarrel with him, he should say, ‘I am fasting.’ By the One in Whose hand is my soul, the unpleasant smell coming out from the mouth of a fasting person is better in the sight of Allah than the smell of musk. The fasting person will have two moments of joy: one when he breaks his fast, and the other when he meets his Lord; then he will be pleased because of his fasting.”
and many more benefits for you to discover……
Reap rewards after Ramadhan by:
“Whoever fasts Ramadhan and follows it with six days of Shawwal, it will be as if he fasted for a lifetime.”